Grace

To Live With Grace means we take an active role in our spiritual, financial, and personal growth. We invest in our own GRACE: Gratitude, Resilience, Authenticity, Creativity, and Empathy — recognizing that with God, and using our God-given Talent, Time, and Treasure, everything is possible.

Grace in the context of loss, pain, heartbreak, and grieving means that instead of being thrown into the downward spiral of anger, depression, denial, bargaining, and acceptance, we respond to loss with GRACE. Instead of sinking into the river of tears, we learn to build an archway across it.

Grace is also the key to successful investing — a high Return On Investment (ROI) and more importantly, a high Return On Legacy (ROL). Some see The Grace Initiative as the key to Legendary Wealth. We see it as Money With Meaning™. Thus, the subtitle: Beyond Money!

Grief-Stricken vs. Grace-Stricken

Grief-Stricken vs. Grace-Stricken

You Are Just…

Grief-stricken and everything will be ok…

Over time you will feel better and not hurt so much…

You just need to get over it and snapback…

If you have experienced a great loss you have heard these words. Maybe not exactly the same words but the same meaning and intent.

People, especially those close to you, have no idea what to say to help, so they express their feelings in odd ways. Usually with what they think you want to hear.

Happy Easter ~ Life After Death

Happy Easter ~ Life After Death

We all have two choices... We either believe there is life after death... Or just death after life. Being a lifelong Christian our belief is sustained by hope and Grace. My beloved Jan saw Easter as something more than a rebirth of spring after winter, but proof of...

Remorse or Grace on the Road to Legacy

Remorse or Grace on the Road to Legacy

Fact: You will leave a legacy... It will either be a positive and lasting impact on your family, friends, or the world at large... Or, it will be negative, maybe worse... you will leave nothing behind that proves the value of the one life you had to live. I am not...

Bridging The River of Grief

Bridging The River of Grief

Throughout my new book, you see we always have a choice between a positive or negative emotion.

We choose to be gloomy or grateful.

We choose to be pessimistic or proactive.

We choose, even when we don’t realize it, Regrets and Remorse vs. Grace.

What I have found is that most people in grief counseling accept…

Your Choice: Grief or Grace

Your Choice: Grief or Grace

I wrote this book to help you come to terms with the grief that stems from great loss. I wrote this article to share the big WHY behind my thinking.

My hope is that you will better understand how your choices and actions will either shorten or lengthen your time in grief vs. living your new life.
As a writer, there is one thing I believe in more than psychology, philosophy, or theology.

It’s the power of WORDS.

Words have meaning and they have the power to kill our spirits or heal our broken hearts.

Having gone through the terrible experience of losing the woman I loved more than anything or anybody, I expected to grieve.

A Word About Our Cover…

A Word About Our Cover…

This book, especially the cover, saved my life.

You will see the traditional memorial candle with flame turning into the smoke that represents the spirit manifesting itself as a woman rising from death in the real world, to live in the spirit world.

I wrote this book to save me years in the prison of grief… and to help the world see there is a clear alternative: Grace.

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Retrospective: Hospice is Caring Not Curing…
"Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around." ~ Leo Buscaglia Exactly 3 years ago today I had the conversation no...
Give Thanks For Gratitude
"Gratitude is the inward feeling of kindness received. Thankfulness is the natural impulse to express that feeling. Thanksgiving is the following of that impulse." ~ Henry Van Dyke   Gratitude Matters... It is the first letter/word in GRACE: Gratitude... Resilience......
Incremental Improvements = Legendary Wealth & Health
"Transformation in real life is extraordinarily incremental, and that's all I'm going to say." ~ Jillian Michaels   Change is constant. How you respond matters... You want to be healthy, wealthy, and wise. I get it... BUT... We are now in a Survival of the Smartest...
You Are A Winner, But…
"A winner is someone who recognizes his God-given talents, works his tail off to develop them into skills, and uses these skills to accomplish his goals." ~ Larry Bird   You must know what game you are playing if you expect to win it! As I said before, life is not an...
Evil, Shock, Trauma, Grief, Grace

Evil, Shock, Trauma, Grief, Grace

"Trauma is a fact of life. It does not, however, have to be a life sentence. The effects of unresolved trauma can be devastating. It can affect our habits and outlook on life, leading to addictions and poor decision-making. It can take a toll on our family life and...

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Love With Grace™: The Door Beyond the Grave

Love With Grace™: The Door Beyond the Grave

"Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses." ~ Ann Landers Love doesn't stop at...

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