Empathy

To Live With Grace means you take the time to actually CONNECT with others… to stop being a bit too “self-centered” and learn to experience YOUR life through the emotions of OTHERS. To recover from loss and grief — or to turn your Time, Talent, and Treasure into Legendary Wealth – you become all you are meant to be when you choose to be actively empathetic.

Definition: Empathy is the ability to emotionally understand what other people feel, see things from their point of view, and imagine yourself in their place. Essentially, it is putting yourself in someone else’s position and feeling what they must be feeling. When you see another person suffering, you might be able to instantly envision yourself in the other person’s place.

Zoom Conference ~ 2/1/23

Zoom Conference ~ 2/1/23

"What patients seek is not scientific knowledge that doctors hide, but existential authenticity each person must find on her own... the angst of facing mortality has no remedy in probability." ~ Paul Kalanithi Yesterday's Session... Yesterday, we had a wonderful time...

The Hope: Resilience

The Hope: Resilience

"Resilience is very different than being numb. Resilience means you experience, you feel, you fail, you hurt. You fall. But, you keep going." ~ Yasmin Mogahed Jumping Out Of a Perfectly Good Airplane... Have you ever wanted to just jump out of a plane... Do some...

Gratitude: Savoring Life

Gratitude: Savoring Life

"I want to tell everybody to celebrate every day, to savor the day and be good to yourself, love yourself, and then you can be good to others and be of service to others." ~ Charlotte Rae Be Grateful ~ Savor Life... When we think of being grateful or thankful for what...

Movement Then Momentum

Movement Then Momentum

"The bigger goal of giving all parents more choices is one that will have to be discussed and undoubtedly roundly debated, but we are going to have to continue to build the case. The momentum is there on the state level in many states. That's where the energy needs to...

Zoom Conference ~ 1/9/23

Zoom Conference ~ 1/9/23

A 2023 Toast to all of us here now... From my old friend Steve Jobs when he returned to save Apple... “Here's to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They're not fond of...

My First Rememberance

My First Rememberance

"A long time ago there was an enchanted princess who lived and loved and then loved even more... until one day when she was called home to heaven. She left our Earthly bounds but still shines her soul upon us even now. This beautiful woman was named Princess Janice...

Grief, Grieving & Grace: A Huge Difference

Grief, Grieving & Grace: A Huge Difference

"Wherever a beautiful soul has been there is a trail of beautiful memories." – Ronald Reagan My Beautiful Memory... On November 4th, what would have been Jan's 80th birthday, we had a wonderful memorial up at the top of "our mountain", Mt. San Jacinto where her...

My First Christmas Without Jan…

My First Christmas Without Jan…

"Christmas is the perfect time to celebrate the love of God and family and to create memories that will last forever. Jesus is God's perfect, indescribable gift. The amazing thing is that not only are we able to receive this gift, but we are able to share it with...

Love With Grace™: Legacy & Legendary Happiness

Love With Grace™: Legacy & Legendary Happiness

"Humanity's legacy of stories and storytelling is the most precious we have. All wisdom is in our stories and songs. A story is how we construct our experiences. At the very simplest, it can be: 'He/she was born, lived, died.' Probably that is the template of our...

A Graceful Christmas

A Graceful Christmas

"Christmas is the spirit of giving without a thought of getting. It is happiness because we see joy in people. It is forgetting self and finding time for others. It is discarding the meaningless and stressing the true values." ~ Thomas S. Monson My First Christmas...

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The Power of Empathy
"The great gift of human beings is that we have the power of empathy." ~ Meryl Streep What is empathy?  Empathy is not just understanding what someone is going through. Nor is empathy simply pitying someone or feeling compassion toward them.  It is the ability to put...
Death of a Child
“Just as it is impossible to explain childbirth to a woman who has never given birth, it is impossible to explain child loss to a person who has never lost a child.” ― Lynda Cheldelin Fell Loss... I've lost my grandparents.  I've lost my father.  But nothing could...
Zoom Conference ~ 2/15/23
"Grace, respect, reserve, and empathetic listening are qualities sorely missing from the public discourse now." ~ Meryl Streep Wednesday's Creative Session... We had a wonderful time explaining, in a lot of detail, what it means to Grieve With Grace™... and why the...
Movement Then Momentum
"The bigger goal of giving all parents more choices is one that will have to be discussed and undoubtedly roundly debated, but we are going to have to continue to build the case. The momentum is there on the state level in many states. That's where the energy needs to...
Grief-Stricken vs. Grace-Stricken

Grief-Stricken vs. Grace-Stricken

You Are Just…

Grief-stricken and everything will be ok…

Over time you will feel better and not hurt so much…

You just need to get over it and snapback…

If you have experienced a great loss you have heard these words. Maybe not exactly the same words but the same meaning and intent.

People, especially those close to you, have no idea what to say to help, so they express their feelings in odd ways. Usually with what they think you want to hear.

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The Power of Empathy

The Power of Empathy

If You Could Only See Inside of Me... We all have masks that shield us from emotional trauma. And in a time when we are consumed with bereavement and the loss of a loved one, we try to hide behind the mask of grief. People say they are sorry for our loss and offer...

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A Word About Our Cover…

A Word About Our Cover…

This book, especially the cover, saved my life.

You will see the traditional memorial candle with flame turning into the smoke that represents the spirit manifesting itself as a woman rising from death in the real world, to live in the spirit world.

I wrote this book to save me years in the prison of grief… and to help the world see there is a clear alternative: Grace.

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